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Men vs. Women!

15 Jun

What’s wrong with us? Men vs. Women!

There is a puzzle in my head for a long time now. Why can’t we just get along?

Hmmm, I don’t think that I will ever get a complete answer on whats wrong with these two species, thinking there is something wrong with the other specie, but yet they engage in further wrongness and go create another mini specie which will grow old and still will not know the answer!

I know, because I’m the “product” of those two species!

I puzzled you, right? evil smile 🙂

I don’t wanna sound revolutionary, but it might be it!

I think I found the puzzle of that wrongness!! What’s wrong with them?

This question is not valid anymore, and it is not acceptable!

We should ask, what’s wrong with ourselves? Why we engage in relationships that are just, well , wrong?

You talk rubbish for the other specie, you say you can’t stand them, you can do it on your own, they are all the same, they will never change, they are hazard to your core emotional, mental, physical health, and huge errors in your life? And yet, you are attached to them.

So my dear ones, STOP HAUNTING THEM THEN! You talk about this “beast “ so evil and mean that they could crush you, and what do you do? You shake your tail feathers in front of their nasty teeth! It is like drowning yourself again with your own hands. You jump in the endless pit all over again, like it is your pleasure and you love to see yourself bleeding!

One must enter the” Jungle” when it is ready, it needs maturity, self-respect, emotional intelligence and respect for another. You just can’t love somebody else as long as you don’t love and respect yourself! CAN’T.

Hold your teeth, hold your tongue from spitting poison. Grow the seed of love from within your heart and then let somebody else water it and bring it to blossom! No such great things come from outside as from the inside power!

I once heard: ”Life and love begins from the inside out, only death follows from outside in”

Ps: I’ m calling love life with the metaphor of a Jungle, because that’s what it is. A rollercoaster of emotions, an excitement and fear, a state of bliss and state of despair, a place of rules and place of freedom, a home of the calmed butterflies and the angry beasts. All so beautifully mixed together in a chaotic way that makes perfect sense.

“Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way, ask if you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future”

― Deepak Chopra

Seeds of Love

Seeds of Love

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Girls just wanna have fun!

14 Jun

Girls just wanna have fun!

Sex and the City

Girls having fun! Sex and the City

Is he gonna call, what should  I wear,what is more subtle for a movie night with him? He didn’t noticed that I curled and brightened my hair?! Sometimes I think, he never understand me?

So what tonight? A regular movie night with him or a drunk laughing night with my girlfriends?

The 2nd choice my ladies! The 2nd choice! And the very best choice!

They will notice the new perm and the highlights ( that u were trying to make for him ), they will tell you that you have put some weight and that your belly looks like a men beer belly!!! And you just look at them with a mad face and the next moment you say cheers to that ( with a beer of course ).

They will tell you,that your hair is desperate for a cut because it looks like hay ( and they make it sound like it’s the end of the world). But who will bring up the immediate hair cut “red light” if it wasn’t for them?

You will say a lot of times “cheers to that” that night! Reminiscing the times when you were young and stupid, when u first got drunk together, when we cried when he didn’t returned our text, when we were happy for each other to find love, and were here for each other when love didn’t work? So yes,cheers to us in the end.

Yup, we didn’t talk world politics, or how to feed the hungry, or who is Kim Kardashian new boyfriend (really, do u know who is the new BF? I’m kinda curious now?). But I can surely say that i know now, who is the best hairdresser in town, where you can get your nails done inexpensively,which are great places to spend the summer  and we surely spent a word or two on which Whiskey is better Irish Jameson or other 🙂

These are the days when you don’t wanna talk work, college or everyday worries. These  are the days when u enjoy a shallow conversation, which will not stress you but will relax you and make you feel comfortable ( I’m writing this with my feet on the table ),buuut I promise we will resolve world hunger issue next time we meet!

We resolved a better issue this time.

We changed our life paths from being a lawyer to a fashion designer, from being a PR to a globetrotter, from a manager to a writer, from a journalist to a producer!  And we had all these conversations topped with grilled chicken and Rakia! Yup, not whiskey this time, maybe if we lived in Ireland! Is there whiskey as cheap as it is Rakia here? Just asking?

Ohh yeah back to the topic, weeell that’s what I call a great evening,  best friends, cracked some jokes, gossiping a bit, some booze and meze and just we, ourselves and us!

Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not saying that hugging and cuddling with you loved ones is boring or not worth it, it is the most marvellous thing on the earth. But to escape the greatest thing on earth to become boring, escape with your girls and enjoy , at just being a WOMAN.

What do men want?

13 Jun

What do men want?

I have been asking this question for a long long time! I have asked men as well, in order to find a decent answer or at least a decent lie. Often when they answer this question the answer is as follows: I want a woman who has dark/blonde hair, who respects herself and got their tish together, who is educated and beautiful and has a valuable character ?!

Well even a Barbie does not have all of this,she just has the beauty and the looks and all the prettiest wardrobe on earth , maybe a car or two, but we are not sure did she bought them on her own or  its Mr. Ken fault!?

But that’s not the point. Lets get back to the the “valuable character” part! So far, I am not sure do they even know whats the definition for character is! Lets consult with the dictionary about this part:

char·ac·ter

[kar-ik-ter]

noun

1.

the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing.

2.

one such feature or trait; characteristic.

3.

moral or ethical quality: a man of fine, honorable character.

4.

qualities of honesty, courage, or the like; integrity: It takes character to face up to a bully.

5.

reputation: a stain on one’s character.

So by this, they pretty much know the definition so they are right they want a woman who has a valuable character. But lets break this definition in parts:

1.

the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing.

Ahh so it is the distinguishing part that counts here. And by character they understand “Someone new, who isn’t the same with the bitch i spent two years of my life, possibly with bigger tits” because that is what distinguish one woman from another.

2.

one such feature or trait; characteristic.

Feature or trait? Don’t get me started over here. Long legs,always shaved and silky skin, talks smoothly, non-smoker, beautiful toes (seriously?)

3.

moral or ethical quality: a man of fine, honorable character.

Yes I agree with this, a true woman should always be moral and take care for herself. Unless by this you men mean, she shouldn’t go out and have fun with her girls because she will flirt with the whole bar and she is a slut. Which will all do respect, you sometimes think.

4.

qualities of honesty, courage, or the like; integrity: It takes character to face up to a bully.

 Really? Honesty?? Really??

How do even know what honesty means, when you are only aware of the definition of lie,lie,lie!! You are what you think, so if you think she lies all the time, it is maybe you lie to her all the time. Be real, and accept that maybe someone is Honest. And seriously google –honesty- for more details.

5.

reputation: a stain on one’s character.

And here is my favourite part.

Reputation! Reputation! Reputation!
You got this all twisted. Your  reputation of a Mr. heartbreaker, Mr. Awesome , Mr. I had million girls , Mr Badass it is a “Valuable” part of you own “Character” and it is your wealth,your everything.
But…when it comes to a woman reputation,when she was played before by a few others Mr. Badass, then she is a SLUT. And this time it is written in capital letters because you think of this ALL the time.

So please,pretty please with sugar on top (referring to Pulp Fiction by Mr. Wolf) please save us time,our precious time and don’t say that you value our characters when you only mean : I would love a girl who is Hot. Period.