Girls just wanna have fun!

14 Jun

Girls just wanna have fun!

Sex and the City

Girls having fun! Sex and the City

Is he gonna call, what should  I wear,what is more subtle for a movie night with him? He didn’t noticed that I curled and brightened my hair?! Sometimes I think, he never understand me?

So what tonight? A regular movie night with him or a drunk laughing night with my girlfriends?

The 2nd choice my ladies! The 2nd choice! And the very best choice!

They will notice the new perm and the highlights ( that u were trying to make for him ), they will tell you that you have put some weight and that your belly looks like a men beer belly!!! And you just look at them with a mad face and the next moment you say cheers to that ( with a beer of course ).

They will tell you,that your hair is desperate for a cut because it looks like hay ( and they make it sound like it’s the end of the world). But who will bring up the immediate hair cut “red light” if it wasn’t for them?

You will say a lot of times “cheers to that” that night! Reminiscing the times when you were young and stupid, when u first got drunk together, when we cried when he didn’t returned our text, when we were happy for each other to find love, and were here for each other when love didn’t work? So yes,cheers to us in the end.

Yup, we didn’t talk world politics, or how to feed the hungry, or who is Kim Kardashian new boyfriend (really, do u know who is the new BF? I’m kinda curious now?). But I can surely say that i know now, who is the best hairdresser in town, where you can get your nails done inexpensively,which are great places to spend the summer  and we surely spent a word or two on which Whiskey is better Irish Jameson or other 🙂

These are the days when you don’t wanna talk work, college or everyday worries. These  are the days when u enjoy a shallow conversation, which will not stress you but will relax you and make you feel comfortable ( I’m writing this with my feet on the table ),buuut I promise we will resolve world hunger issue next time we meet!

We resolved a better issue this time.

We changed our life paths from being a lawyer to a fashion designer, from being a PR to a globetrotter, from a manager to a writer, from a journalist to a producer!  And we had all these conversations topped with grilled chicken and Rakia! Yup, not whiskey this time, maybe if we lived in Ireland! Is there whiskey as cheap as it is Rakia here? Just asking?

Ohh yeah back to the topic, weeell that’s what I call a great evening,  best friends, cracked some jokes, gossiping a bit, some booze and meze and just we, ourselves and us!

Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not saying that hugging and cuddling with you loved ones is boring or not worth it, it is the most marvellous thing on the earth. But to escape the greatest thing on earth to become boring, escape with your girls and enjoy , at just being a WOMAN.

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Molten Lava Cake

14 Jun

I love to cook. It doesn’t matter whatever I am going through, I just go to my kitchen and lose myself for some time.
I do not think of anything else, I just focus to make the recipe, delicious .
My mom, loves this! I can barely eat one, but she can snap 2-3 of them in no time.

Sooo, I don’t wanna be greedy so here is the recipe 🙂

Ingredients:

5 – 6 ounces dark chocolate
6 tablespoons butter
1/2 cup sugar
2 eggs
1/2 cup flour
Optional: Whipped or ice cream
Preparation:

Pre heat oven to 200 degrees C. Lightly grease four 4-5 custard cups. In double boiler, melt chocolate and butter. In a small bowl, lightly beat eggs and sugar. Add some chocolate mixture to eggs to temper eggs. Carefully, stir chocolate mixture into egg mixture. Add flour and combine completely. Add batter to custard cups. Place on baking pan and bake for 8-10 minutes. Centers should be soft but sides should be done. Invert cups on individual serving plates. Remove cups after 2 minutes. Serve warm with whipped or ice cream.
Bon Appétit
Ps: My mom says they are delicious tomorrow as well.

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How do I love?

14 Jun

How do I love?

I could say I have loved 20 times in 20 years, but I could not know how many times I lied now :p ?

Or  I didn’t lie at all?

Well if it is all about butterflies in the stomach than I could double this number on 40 or 60 or…stop me!

How many times have I felt butterflies in my stomach, there are not that many butterflies in the world.

So im pretty much sure that is not the indication that I have loved

What about, catching myself of wandering and thinking about him?

How many nights have I spend on thinking of him and smiling for no reason….ahh such a beautiful waste of time! Nope that’s not it as well. I have spent nights and nights thinking  and dreaming  of him. Ohh his blue eyes, blonde hair, bad boy attitude, the world hates him and he is a raper! Hint 🙂

So no, thinking and dreaming doesn’t count, and sleepless night doesn’t count as well. I have had sleeps night watching “Sex and the City” from first to last season in a week! Yup in ONE week J So what if I spent a sleepless night or two over him! Frankly I don’t even remember now, why!?

Okay  so this helped me to narrow the list on 5 lucky ones! Hah! So what is that, that got me thinking what is real love and why I feel sooo different this time?

So what is that one thing that gets me out of my skin? What is the thing that gets my train out of its railroad? What is the thing that makes my heart beats  louder, faster and it makes it rhyme with his name? What makes me an owl to make me enjoy the sleepless night?

How do I love?

I love in a way that even when I cry, it warms my heart. I feel , see and smell his love around me. It is so intense that for the first time in my life I can touch it and taste it, and by that I mean literally! Its like when I lay with him I feel like an invisible womb has covered me and it is immediately warm, colorful and tastes like burned sugar! It is like our heartbeat synced and its is peaceful! That’s how I love, selfishly, conditionally, wondering and suspiciously. I’m not perfect, nobody is! But I don’t wanna escape from it,no! This time, I am not letting my fears stop me from what feel so flawless. I am chasing my demons and I will tie them down. This kind a love is like a Comet, you might never get the chance to see it twice in a lifetime.

Because it is not everything in the ways you love, it is everything on how you SEE love and how you project love! There is no right or wrong way to love, there is just ONE way and that’s LOVE!

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What do men want?

13 Jun

What do men want?

I have been asking this question for a long long time! I have asked men as well, in order to find a decent answer or at least a decent lie. Often when they answer this question the answer is as follows: I want a woman who has dark/blonde hair, who respects herself and got their tish together, who is educated and beautiful and has a valuable character ?!

Well even a Barbie does not have all of this,she just has the beauty and the looks and all the prettiest wardrobe on earth , maybe a car or two, but we are not sure did she bought them on her own or  its Mr. Ken fault!?

But that’s not the point. Lets get back to the the “valuable character” part! So far, I am not sure do they even know whats the definition for character is! Lets consult with the dictionary about this part:

char·ac·ter

[kar-ik-ter]

noun

1.

the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing.

2.

one such feature or trait; characteristic.

3.

moral or ethical quality: a man of fine, honorable character.

4.

qualities of honesty, courage, or the like; integrity: It takes character to face up to a bully.

5.

reputation: a stain on one’s character.

So by this, they pretty much know the definition so they are right they want a woman who has a valuable character. But lets break this definition in parts:

1.

the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing.

Ahh so it is the distinguishing part that counts here. And by character they understand “Someone new, who isn’t the same with the bitch i spent two years of my life, possibly with bigger tits” because that is what distinguish one woman from another.

2.

one such feature or trait; characteristic.

Feature or trait? Don’t get me started over here. Long legs,always shaved and silky skin, talks smoothly, non-smoker, beautiful toes (seriously?)

3.

moral or ethical quality: a man of fine, honorable character.

Yes I agree with this, a true woman should always be moral and take care for herself. Unless by this you men mean, she shouldn’t go out and have fun with her girls because she will flirt with the whole bar and she is a slut. Which will all do respect, you sometimes think.

4.

qualities of honesty, courage, or the like; integrity: It takes character to face up to a bully.

 Really? Honesty?? Really??

How do even know what honesty means, when you are only aware of the definition of lie,lie,lie!! You are what you think, so if you think she lies all the time, it is maybe you lie to her all the time. Be real, and accept that maybe someone is Honest. And seriously google –honesty- for more details.

5.

reputation: a stain on one’s character.

And here is my favourite part.

Reputation! Reputation! Reputation!
You got this all twisted. Your  reputation of a Mr. heartbreaker, Mr. Awesome , Mr. I had million girls , Mr Badass it is a “Valuable” part of you own “Character” and it is your wealth,your everything.
But…when it comes to a woman reputation,when she was played before by a few others Mr. Badass, then she is a SLUT. And this time it is written in capital letters because you think of this ALL the time.

So please,pretty please with sugar on top (referring to Pulp Fiction by Mr. Wolf) please save us time,our precious time and don’t say that you value our characters when you only mean : I would love a girl who is Hot. Period.

Hello world!

13 Jun

Hi Everybody,

I love, love, love a lot of things. First of all, I love writing and reading , that’s why I am here.

I love laughs, dawns, cars, food, creative things, the smell of coffee, chilling in a bar with friends and sleeping.

I hate dentists, cold soup and making up my bed.

Things that I suck on:
Picking up the phone
Being somewhere on time
Keep up with a diet

I will be writing about things that I want to share with the world, interesting stories, situations that bother me and about topics that bother the world.
So, for more stay tuned :)