What do men want?

13 Jun

What do men want?

I have been asking this question for a long long time! I have asked men as well, in order to find a decent answer or at least a decent lie. Often when they answer this question the answer is as follows: I want a woman who has dark/blonde hair, who respects herself and got their tish together, who is educated and beautiful and has a valuable character ?!

Well even a Barbie does not have all of this,she just has the beauty and the looks and all the prettiest wardrobe on earth , maybe a car or two, but we are not sure did she bought them on her own or  its Mr. Ken fault!?

But that’s not the point. Lets get back to the the “valuable character” part! So far, I am not sure do they even know whats the definition for character is! Lets consult with the dictionary about this part:

char·ac·ter

[kar-ik-ter]

noun

1.

the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing.

2.

one such feature or trait; characteristic.

3.

moral or ethical quality: a man of fine, honorable character.

4.

qualities of honesty, courage, or the like; integrity: It takes character to face up to a bully.

5.

reputation: a stain on one’s character.

So by this, they pretty much know the definition so they are right they want a woman who has a valuable character. But lets break this definition in parts:

1.

the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing.

Ahh so it is the distinguishing part that counts here. And by character they understand “Someone new, who isn’t the same with the bitch i spent two years of my life, possibly with bigger tits” because that is what distinguish one woman from another.

2.

one such feature or trait; characteristic.

Feature or trait? Don’t get me started over here. Long legs,always shaved and silky skin, talks smoothly, non-smoker, beautiful toes (seriously?)

3.

moral or ethical quality: a man of fine, honorable character.

Yes I agree with this, a true woman should always be moral and take care for herself. Unless by this you men mean, she shouldn’t go out and have fun with her girls because she will flirt with the whole bar and she is a slut. Which will all do respect, you sometimes think.

4.

qualities of honesty, courage, or the like; integrity: It takes character to face up to a bully.

 Really? Honesty?? Really??

How do even know what honesty means, when you are only aware of the definition of lie,lie,lie!! You are what you think, so if you think she lies all the time, it is maybe you lie to her all the time. Be real, and accept that maybe someone is Honest. And seriously google –honesty- for more details.

5.

reputation: a stain on one’s character.

And here is my favourite part.

Reputation! Reputation! Reputation!
You got this all twisted. Your  reputation of a Mr. heartbreaker, Mr. Awesome , Mr. I had million girls , Mr Badass it is a “Valuable” part of you own “Character” and it is your wealth,your everything.
But…when it comes to a woman reputation,when she was played before by a few others Mr. Badass, then she is a SLUT. And this time it is written in capital letters because you think of this ALL the time.

So please,pretty please with sugar on top (referring to Pulp Fiction by Mr. Wolf) please save us time,our precious time and don’t say that you value our characters when you only mean : I would love a girl who is Hot. Period.

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